Admiral Stockdale passed away a few days ago on July 5, 2005. I make the assumption that most folks know Admiral Stockdale, if perhaps only for the few moments of public infamy during the 1992 presidential debates which were relentlessly replayed and caricatured, or more hopefully from his selfless leadership during his 7.5 years as the senior Prisoner of War (POW) in Vietnam for which he was appropriately awarded this Nation’s highest decoration, The Congressional Medal of Honor. I fortunately have a much personal and profound recollection of this exemplar of human honor, dignity, and service and for those of you who don’t know about Admiral Stockdale, I urge you to spend a few moments learning more at http://www.admiralstockdale.us.
I first met Admiral Stockdale while enrolled at the US Naval Academy in the 1980’s. I was among a handful of fortunate First Class Midshipman (seniors) who were selected to take part in an exploratory course on Leadership and Ethics designed and taught by Admiral Bill Lawrence (also a singularly extraordinary person and Vietnam POW). This class remains one of the formative pillars of my life as I was exposed to so many incredible guest lecturers in an intimate and engaging setting. One series of classes was led by Admiral Stockdale, and these few days standout as the capstone of my four long years at the Academy; being able to discuss leadership, ethics, and the placement of service to others over oneself with someone who had spent their life doing just this was a powerful experience for each of my classmates, all of us at such a critical juncture in our personal and professional development. In the 20 years since, I have tried, imperfectly, to apply these important concepts in my life, but I have always held Admiral Stockdale as the beacon against which I have re-calibrated my ethical compass when I have strayed off course.
Years later, I had occasion to spend an evening with Admiral Stockdale and his wonderful wife Sybil when a couple of my squadron mates, one who’s Father was close with the Stockdales, and I were invited over to their home in Coronado. Admiral Stockdale appeared much older and the beginnings of Alzheimer’s were becoming evident, but he and Sybil were so accessible and had so much presence that one could not help think how many such evenings they had spent graciously entertaining young Naval Officers and sharing their warmth, tales of courage and home so that each of us might feel like they we have a special bond with this amazing family.
The concepts that Admiral Stockdale developed, believed in and lived are not merely military precepts, but basic tenants for each of us to understand, and strive for. As is probably becoming evident in the emergent ramblings of this blog, I am a fledgling student of history, religion and philosophy as tools in my pursuit to better understand the world around me, and in my goal to be a better person and global citizen. Regardless of your religious or political orientation, you will find true wisdom and deep meaning in the life of James Bond Stockdale and for that, I thank him deeply…
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